Find Your Unique Purpose In Life

Practical tools to help you live out your God-given destiny


your identity.

Learn who you are at the core of your being and weed out distractions – so you can become a fuller expression of who God made you to be.


your purpose.

Get the tools you need, including the Enneagram, to help define your purpose and set out on a path to live out that purpose every day.


the world.

Give God maximum glory with the life he’s given you as you transform your sphere of influence in the way you were uniquely created to.


About Me

When I was in college I was sure that I was going to be a single missionary living in Africa, but instead I ended up married, living in California and writing screenplays on the side while working office jobs. Life didn’t happen the way I planned, and I spent years trying to understand why I’m here and what I’m supposed to be doing.

The problem is with all of the expectations from culture, family of origin and the culture at large it’s easy to lose yourself and slip into living on auto-pilot.

You may feel stuck and even a bit guilty that you haven’t figured it all out yet. The truth is, you are unique and wonderful and were made for more than to just drift through life.

Life is short. Live yours with purpose.

Christians want to live purposeful lives, but it can be tough to figure out what that purpose is. I’ve created courses that bring clarity to the process so you can walk out your destiny with joy and peace.

Our lives are busy. But how much of that busy-ness is purposeful? Is all that activity actually leading to or fulfilling the purpose God created you for?

Questions like these can leave you feeling confused, frustrated and—let’s admit it—a bit guilty. You don’t want to waste the time you have on this earth, but destiny feels like a big, intimidating word. It’s hard to know where to start.

I hear you, and I can help. I’m Heath Davis Havlick, founder of Dearly Beloved Personal Discovery Programs. I spent decades trying to figure out who I wanted to be when I grew up. But I've learned a lot along the way, gained clarity and am now walking in my purpose. As a teacher, speaker and writer, I share what I’ve learned in my 15+ years of study on the topics of human behavior, personality and purpose.

My Enneagram-based programs teach you foundational truths that are essential for your journey of discovery, including:

  • The critical difference between your soul and your spirit
  • Why we don’t really believe we are God’s beloved
  • The fact that to know God, you must know yourself
  • Why destiny isn’t set in stone – and how you can raise your destiny “horizon”

The human brain is drawn toward clarity and away from confusion. Don’t let confusion keep you from embarking on your own destiny journey – after all, it’s your birthright! Leave frustration behind and get the knowledge and practical tools you need to live a purposeful life of destiny.

I wanted to weep for all the years of not understanding who I am. It was a complete release to understand for the first time that nothing was wrong with me – and that there was a way out.”

-Lauren K.

Honestly, all that Heath taught was new and very valuable information. The most helpful part was believing and receiving that I am God’s beloved.”

-Andrea A.

Self-knowledge Transformation Plan


Learn About Yourself

Learn the difference between "personality" and "authentic self."


Do the Work

Keep a journal and do daily exercises that develop foundational habits.


See Change in Yourself

Set out on the path to self-knowledge and lasting transformation.

What’s this gonna cost me?

You were made on purpose and for purpose. Your time on Earth is limited and precious. What’s the cost of not being who you were created to be?

Don’t waste another day living a low-purpose life. Stop wondering and worrying. Get the insight and the tools you need to begin confidently moving into your specific destiny.

Purposeful Programs

Know Yourself to Know God


  • A 30-day course with 4 audio teachings (CD or MP3) and a Journey Journal (PDF) will help you discover your authentic self so that you can better know yourself and God – knowledge critical to fulfilling your destiny.

Identity & Destiny Boot Camp


  • Six hour-plus MP3 lessons and a 23-page workbook (PDF) helps you clarify your identity by showing you what’s going on in your head using Biblical principles and modern psychology. Reclaim your purpose and live it with joy!

Know Your Destiny Bundle


  • Get both programs and supercharge the path to your purpose!

Additional services:

One-on-one coaching, live and web-based group workshops, and weekend retreats are also available.

Thanks for your teaching on destiny. [Famous TV preacher] had sickened me on the concept until now!”

-Ralph W.

The biggest lesson…is learning to hear and experience God’s love in a way I never have before.”

-Cecilia L.

The Uncovery Discovery Blog

Enneagram Type Six: Loyal – Well, Sort Of

By hhavlick | September 16, 2014

We remain in the Head Center this week with an exploration of Type Six. A joke in the Enneagram world is that if you can’t figure out which type you are, you’re probably a Six. That’s because the Six is such an ambivalent personality. So ambivalent, in fact, that they…


Enneagram Type Three: The Need to Succeed

By hhavlick | August 24, 2014

As we continue the journey around the Enneagram symbol, we arrive at Type Three: The Achiever, The Performer, The Success Story. American culture is set up to reward Threes because our nation is a Three nation. America was built to a large extent by people who showed up on its…


Enneagram Type Two: Love That is Only Sort of Love

By hhavlick | August 18, 2014

Last week, we looked at Enneagram Type One, so on we go around the dial to Type Two, also called the The Helper, The Servant or The Caretaker. Those terms all sound nice, don’t they? These roles are valued and lauded in our culture, and are particularly rewarded within Christianity,…