The Mind: Where the Enneagram Lives

By hhavlick / April 1, 2020 /

This post is an adapted excerpt from a chapter of my book, Becoming Your True You: God, the Enneagram and Your Unique Purpose. I’m officially launching it this Friday, April 3, at 7 p.m. via a Facebook Live launch party.…

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Separating Soul and Spirit with the Enneagram

By hhavlick / March 28, 2020 /

Once you learn the nine Enneagram types, you begin to realize that the implications of how your personality rules your life are deep and wide. I realized early on that if your personality is in control of your life, God…

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The Enneagram: A Complete Guide to the Basics

By hhavlick / March 24, 2020 /

So, you’ve heard about the Enneagram of personality types. Maybe you came across a quiz online and became intrigued. Similarly, Maybe a friend is driving you crazy talking about it non-stop. Maybe a fellow Christian is worried that it’s…umm…evil. Well,…

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How Will You Navigate the New Year? Destiny is a Destination

By hhavlick / January 1, 2020 /

One of my favorite lines from my favorite poet, Rainer Maria Rilke, is appropriate as I write this post on January 1, 2020: “And now we welcome the new year, full of things that have never been.” Who can say…

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The Enneagram’s Call to Civility

By hhavlick / December 19, 2019 /

Much of Twitter—at least, the trending hashtags—has become a dumpster fire, fed by the steady lighter fluid stream of people’s anger and frustration. The things people are willing to say to each other continue to stun me. Having studied the…

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Not Hot Wings – Head Wings! Enneagram Five, Six and Seven

By hhavlick / November 30, 2019 /

We’ve looked at the wings for the Instinctive/Gut Types (Eight, Nine and One) and for the Heart Types (Two, Three and Four). We’ll finish our tour around the Enneagram symbol with the final three personality types, which belong to the…

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The Wings of the Heart – Enneagram Two, Three and Four

By hhavlick / November 14, 2019 /

In the last post, we explored the wings of the Instinctive Center of Intelligence: the Eight, Nine and One. Let’s continue on with the Heart Center types: Two, Three and Four. How do their wings alter how each shows up…

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The Enneagram – “The darn thing’s got wings!”

By hhavlick / October 31, 2019 /

One of the things that makes the Enneagram such a comprehensive and accurate model of human behavior is its complexity. I used to resist this assessment because I didn’t want people to be scared away from it. But now that…

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Book Review: Becoming Us: Using the Enneagram to Create a Thriving Gospel-Centered Marriage

By hhavlick / October 17, 2019 /

I got my copy of Becoming Us: Using the Enneagram to Create a Thriving Gospel-Centered Marriage the day it dropped, both because I try to stay on top of emerging Enneagram literature and because I wanted to provide a review…

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The Enneagram and the Fear of Not Doing

By hhavlick / October 3, 2019 /

As a solopreneur with a day job, I never have nothing to do. I’ve perennially got more tasks and projects to do than are possible to accomplish. I mentioned in an earlier post that I took a week off between…

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Quick Start Guide to Centering Prayer

This short guide gives you the essentials for learning to be still and quiet before God so you can hear his voice and feel his love in a deeper way.

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