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Have you ever felt like maybe there is more to life? That there might be some grand design for your time here on Earth – and that you’re missing out on it? You love Jesus, you’re doing all the “right” stuff and trying your best, but you just have that gnawing sense that it’s not enough. Or it’s all just left you feeling really unsatisfied, even empty.

Ever wondered why certain parts of your life just don’t work, despite your best efforts, or why you have the same three arguments with your spouse over and over?

Or—gulp—you know in theory that God loves everyone but wonder why He doesn’t much care for you in particular?

If any or all of this applies to you, then you have found your tribe! Welcome.

I’m Heath, and I care about your destiny. Both the one on this earth and the eternal one. So, I’m dedicated to helping you discover your true self so that you can be who you were created to be. Once you’re clear on who you really are, your life overflows with joy and peace. That unsettling, nagging feeling subsides. You have amazing compassion for yourself and for others.

I’m not talking about a spiritual gifts assessment here, or what color your parachute is. I spent a lot of years operating at the surface level, the level of personality, and they were years of frustration, guilt and striving. But over the last 15+ years, God in His kindness has shown me some truths and given me some tools to really cut through the noise and get to the core of human behavior – how different it is from what God intended, the ways that it robs us of our destiny and how to begin the journey back to our true selves.

The Enneagram is one of those tools, and you’ll see me writing about it a lot, but there are other tools as well. I hope you’ll join me on this journey, because I really do care about your destiny. Just imagine what the world would be like if it were full of people living out their true purpose with love and joy!

Some practical stuff: you can subscribe to this blog to get weekly updates. You can learn about my book, Becoming Your True You: God, the Enneagram and Your Unique Purpose.

You can join the Dearly Beloved community by checking out my latest video on YouTube, liking my Instagram account or following along on Twitter, FaceBook and Pinterest. Here are some foundational blog posts to get you started:

The Enneagram: A Complete Guide to the Basics

Which Enneagram type is most common?

Which Enneagram Type is the rarest?

About me: I’ve been following Jesus for more than 40 years, and I love him like nobody’s business. He is better than I could make up. He’s everything. I’ve been a writer since I could hold a pencil, and I’ve won awards in three genres (poetry, journalism, screenwriting). I teach, write and speak on how people can find their true selves so they can live out their destiny and give God maximum glory. I’m married to one of the best humans ever, Tom Havlick.

You can reach me at heath@heathdavishavlick.com.