The Mind: Where the Enneagram Lives

By hhavlick / April 1, 2020 /

This post is an adapted excerpt from a chapter of my book, Becoming Your True You: God, the Enneagram and Your Unique Purpose. I’m officially launching it this Friday, April 3, at 7 p.m. via a Facebook Live launch party.…

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Separating Soul and Spirit with the Enneagram

By hhavlick / March 28, 2020 /

Once you learn the nine Enneagram types, you begin to realize that the implications of how your personality rules your life are deep and wide. I realized early on that if your personality is in control of your life, God…

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How Will You Navigate the New Year? Destiny is a Destination

By hhavlick / January 1, 2020 /

One of my favorite lines from my favorite poet, Rainer Maria Rilke, is appropriate as I write this post on January 1, 2020: “And now we welcome the new year, full of things that have never been.” Who can say…

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The Enneagram and the Fear of Not Doing

By hhavlick / October 3, 2019 /

As a solopreneur with a day job, I never have nothing to do. I’ve perennially got more tasks and projects to do than are possible to accomplish. I mentioned in an earlier post that I took a week off between…

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Returning to My Enneagram Tribe – What Keeps Me Going

By hhavlick / September 12, 2019 /

Aaaaand…..we’re back! After a many-months hiatus, I’m able to return to blogging. I’ve turned in all my materials to be considered for certification through the Enneagram Institute, and I’ll know some time within the next six months whether I’ve been…

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Enter to Win a 23andMe Ancestry Kit to Learn More About Your Identity

By hhavlick / August 15, 2018 /

“I…carry the spirit and blood of my father, mother and my ancestors. So I am really never alone. My identity is through that line.”  ~Ziggy Marley Identity is a powerful thing. It gives us a sense of belonging and continuity:…

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Your Miraculous Catch of Destiny Fish

By hhavlick / May 16, 2018 /

In my last post, I wrote about the good struggles of a Daniel fast – good in terms of showing me how my dominant instinct (Self-Preservation) and Enneagram type (Seven) are challenged by lack of comfort and fear of deprivation.…

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What Can Hinder Your Intimacy with God? Yep, Your Personality.

By hhavlick / April 19, 2018 /

I’m an intercessor. Always have been, even when I was a kid and hadn’t heard that word yet. It’s always seemed super-obvious that if you want to see a person helped or a situation changed, the thing to do is…

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Identity, Destiny and a Chance to Win My New Program

By hhavlick / March 1, 2018 /

“The most important of all functions…is to become who we are, the unique manifestation of the Word of God that the Spirit designed us to be.”   ~Fr. Thomas Keating, Intimacy with God Deep down, you know there’s more than the…

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What Does It Mean to Become Spiritually Mature?

By hhavlick / January 25, 2018 /

  I come from a long line of emotionally damaged people. I bet you do, too! My family weren’t sociopaths, but still, as a former pastor used to say, “Hurt people hurt people.” This damage limits the set of options…

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Quick Start Guide to Centering Prayer

This short guide gives you the essentials for learning to be still and quiet before God so you can hear his voice and feel his love in a deeper way.

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